Ladies Please Stop!!

Hey hey!!!
So this is a little rant on what us ladies do to each other. We put each other down all the time... could be behind their back or in front of their face. Its not OK either way!

First stop frigging comparing yourself to someone else. Everyone is different in every way. Don't think she's better because she has bigger boobs and don't think you are better because you have a flatter stomach. I say this to my 5 year old all the time "if everyone was the same how boring would that be" Comparing is not worth it.. Embrace what you got and compliment what they have.

Stop bullying each other. Girls are the worse.. I know this because I am one. And I won't lie I have said things before, when I was self conscious. We are in a world now where its so easy to pick one another apart. Imagine a world where we bring each other up. Could u imagine if we didn't judge girls on clothing,style, makeup, hair, body ???? Everyone does it but we really shouldn't. Everyone also knows what its like to be judged and how bad it sucks. Females have enough shit to look at online, in magazine and on TV... we really need to compliment each other. A compliment will go a lot further then an insult. Stop the whispers. Stop the chats with your girlfriends. Stop the pointing. Its sad to think that its so easy talking about how much that girl gained weight but fuck if something was said about your own body or clothing you'd be a couple things.. hurt, upset, no confidence. In my opinion the more you talk about others the more you are unhappy with yourself. So become a better person, love yourself and you will love everyone else.

I remember a time when I hung out with more guys than girls. Way less drama and I had way more confidence (even though my confidence sucked then.. it was better lol) How absolutely sad is that! Now mind you these guys cared more about where they were going to skate next then what I was wearing but still...  How many girls say they hate girls.. they hate hanging out with girls, they would much rather hang out with guys?? Its so sad. Girls are so much fun. I am so happy to have so many girlfriends that I absolutely love to hang out with.

Anyways just a short little blog on a rant on what so many girls do and shouldn't!


Stay True
Stay You
Stay Confident

Julie ♥

Summer is coming!!!!

Hey hey the best few months of the year is just around the corner. Bbq's, beaches, camping, tanning, 4 wheeling, bonfires... complete freaking bliss!
Time to get the dresses, shorts, skirts, sandals, bathing suits and capris out!
Soooo many full figured ladies are too damn hot in summer because we feel we need to cover it all up. You don't! Feel free to put a cute dress on, a tank top and a bathing suit on. It is a very short period of time of sun and heat so soak it in and enjoy it. Do not feel you HAVE to cover up being a bigger lady. I don't know why society is such on the verge of making bigger girls feel like we don't belong or shouldn't be able to wear what everyone else is wearing in the summer. News flash.. there has been full figured people since the beginning of damn time!
Now I have a HUGE secret to tell you. I know exactly how to get a beach body like in 5 minutes. Ready.... you go to the beach...with your body ;) BAM mind blown right!!! Honestly there are so many bathing suits and cute little laced covers, I promise you if you look around you will find something you love and are comfortable in. For example I found a bathing suit top at Wal-Mart with a under wire for support, cheetah print...love it. Holds the ta ta's up and looks awesome with my little brown skirt bottom I have. It was only 20$... and that's how I like it ;). Don't feel so insecure at the beach or pool side in your swim wear. If people look let them but most won't. And for those that do its out of ignorance or jealousy so brush it off and enjoy your time with your friends, family or whoever you are there with!
Dresses are my favourite! I began my love for dresses about a year or so ago. I figured out what shape of dress is for me (A line) and now I rock them on a regular. Forever21 has really cute ones. You can shop online. Its a Canadian store. Shipping is super quick and prices are awesome. You really can't beat it. Old Navy is another place I love to go for dresses. Good thing is you can try them on there. Also there's an Old Navy almost everywhere so no issues taking stuff back if you need to.
Even though dresses are my fav clothing item for summer months I need to be careful when I'm wearing them. Work, great! Summer bbq at a friends or my place, great. Walking the Zoo for an hour or more, not great. Anywhere where there is a lot of walking period not great lol. I don't do the spanx or any of that so chafing happens because of my wonderful thighs! And if anyone can relate you understand completely how uncomfortable that is. Walk a little spread wiggle, move on. Made that mistake a few times and it won't happen again! If I feel like I really want to wear a dress on a walking day Ill throw some black tights on.
Sandals. Love sandals. Anyone who knows me knows how much I hate socks! You can get such cute sandals. I love flats and wedges the most myself. With that being said..if you are going to wear sandals..girl please paint those damn toes. Painting my toes is a whole damn task. My belly is a tad round and big and my arms a little short so moving around to get to every toe is like a damn work out with a couple breaks for breathers. But hey I make sure my toes are painted. If I am doing it you can too!
Ill be buying my first pair of shorts this year since like god... I don't remember ever buying shorts for myself ever. Once I buy them I will let you know how it goes. I would love to find a cute ripped jean short. The thing with shorts they ride up, at least they always did whenever I tried to wear them. The annoying things right!
Tanks!!! I love tanks. I got big arms but that will never stop me from wearing cute tank tops and it shouldn't stop you either. There are so many different styles out there and colors and patterns. You can layer them which I love to do or not whatever. And who doesn't want some color on their arms and chest!?!?! That's right! So go find some cute tanks and rock them and love them!!
Remember once you start loving yourself and realizing you are sexy and beautiful then nothing and no one else matters. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Love yourself first then everything else will fall into place. This I can promise you!

Stay you
Stay true
Stay confident


Julie ♥

I Hope..

I hope you don't look back with regret
I hope you did everything you wanted
I hope you laughed until you cried... or peed your pants
I hope you cried less in life then you laughed
I hope you danced to your favorite songs
I hope you sang loudly even though you're not a great singer
I hope you put that lipstick on
I hope you found your favorite shade of lipstick
I hope you dressed up in a fancy dress
I hope you rocked those faded ripped jeans
I hope you fell in love more than once
I hope you had your heart broken at least once
I hope you had that piece of cake
I hope you had that "ugly cry" night in bed with a sappy movie and a thing of ice cream
I hope that store had your favorite ice cream
I hope you kissed a perfect stranger
I hope people showed you respect and if they didn't you demanded it
I hope you had friends you could be silly with
I hope you explored
I hope you felt unconditional love
I hope you ate junk food in your friends living room with a group of girls wrapped up in blankets watching episodes of Sex and the City.
I hope your heart skipped a beat for that guy
I hope you smiled
And that you are still smiling
I hope you forgave, forgot and moved on
I hope you apologized
I hope you were confident
I hope you were true to what you believed
I hope you stood up for yourself
I hope you found a friend to tell all your secrets too
I hope you had dance parties in the basement, kitchen, deck or garage
I hope your friends trust you
I hope you went to the beach
I hope you enjoyed the little things
I hope you didn't live a lie
I hope you were happy
I hope you lived
I hope you went on road trips with you girl friends and on the way home from the crazy weekend you all had just enough life left to give er to that awesome bar song in the car... at least twice.
I hope you felt sexy
I hope you were a Killer Queen
I hope you felt every emotion
I hope when hearing at least 1-2 songs it brings back major memories and all you can do is laugh/smile
I hope you had a time of just drinking, partying... being young
I hope you spent quality time with loved ones
I hope you played hard but not too hard that it fucked up your life
I hope you felt wanted
I hope you had the time of your life

Julie ♥
Stay you
Stay true
Stay confident

P.S. Cleanse going well, in case anyone was wondering. Also booked my appt for my first big piece tattoo and sooo excited!!!