I am Julie

I am not fat, I have fat. I am Julie.
I am a very short, 5 foot 1" to be exact, plus size female. My ass is as big as my belly and both are a very decent size hahaha. I'm ok with that, I'm actually more then ok with it. I, Julie, love myself :)
I am 30 yrs old and it took me too long to build the confidence I have. A lot of online media with full figured girls helped me. Youtube, blogs and looking things up on pinterest. So I decided to start a blog and maybe incourage someone to let their confidence out.... hopefully a lot earlier age than myself.
I was overly self conscience for years, too many years. I didnt go to the beach with friends, didnt go to certain events, didnt wear what I really wanted too. I ALWAYS thought people were starring or whispering about the "fat girl"
I knew if I didn't turn this attitude around I would look back one day, realize how much I missed out on and lay in regret.
Its not like BAM.... I woke up one day and was like , I love me, Im hot, fuck everyone else. Nope. I youtube confident plus size women and their stories. I started dressing in things I liked. I read postive quotes a lot.  I also talked to myself a lot.  Especially in the beginning, telling myself its ok to wear what Im wearing with thick legs. Telling myself you're hot. It helped.
Don't not care. Care more. Care about your hair, makeup and what you are wearing. Like what you are wearing, not what just fits. Pluck your damn eyebrows girl! Don't give up on all the little things because you got some fat on your bones.Walk out your door always feeling good about what you just looked at in the mirror. Get a full length mirror,  check out your fabulous body every day!
Don't care so much of what people think. I know, its hard sometimes. The more you don't care the more you will let you be you. Which is confident and beautiful. Everyone has it in them but only YOU can bring it out! So eff em! Seriously, why are you wasting your precious, short, amazing, fantastic life on what others think?????STOP.I'm telling you right now.... it doesn't matter if you are a size 2 or 22. If you have brown hair or red. What side of town you live on or what you do for a living... People are always going to talk. Do not let it affect you as a person. Especially weight. Society sucks but you don't have too!
I can't wait to share stories... like fat girl problems, that we would only understand. Old and new stories! Tell you about great finds in makeup, purses, shoes and clothing. Definitely clothing... its never an easy thing!

Nice meeting you,
Julie